59 ways to admit love to yourself

Self -love is important. We cannot love others if we do not love ourselves. We cannot be a source of power if we ourselves “storm”. Psychologist Corinn Dobbas compiled a list of what we can do for ourselves right now.

1. In your free time, do only what pleases you and fills with energy.

2. In the evenings, write down in the diary, for which you are grateful to the day.

3. Do something good for another.

4. Forgive someone. Believe me, everyone does everything possible, based on what he knows and where he is now.

5. Forgive yourself.

7. Train your breath. The following exercise will help: inhale for 5 seconds, then hold your breath for 5 seconds and exhale for 5 seconds. Repeat 3-5 times.

8. Read the head of a good book.

9. Listen to the lecture Ted: they are very inspired.

10. Smile: already this action alone makes us happier.

eleven. Plan a massage.

13. Make 7-10 full breaths and exhalations in the frog pose: this helps to relieve stress and anxiety. Anticide, imagine how you release what you no longer need.

14. Make a manicure.

15. If you want to shout or cry, do not restrain yourself.

16. Be grateful to everyone and always.

17. Make another compliment.

18. Hug someone.

19. Take a nap and do not repent yourself for it.

20. Plan a day when you do whatever you want. Do not put off until the “suitable times”.

21. Call a friend with whom you have not talked for a long time.

22. Think about what you like in you, in your body. Think about it more often.

23. Become the present. Say what you feel.

24. Don’t take anything on your account. People do what they do for various reasons, but they have nothing to do with you.

25. Make a notebook in which you will record your favorite quotes and aphorisms. Re -read them from time to time.

26. Let go of who you were. Grow and change normally and correctly.

27. Be kind to the one who is angry.

28. Try a new set of exercises.

29. Put on the desktop.

thirty. Collect things that you have not wear for a long time, and sacrifice them to the needy.

31. Prepare your dinner. Pour a glass of wine, turn on your favorite music. Allow yourself to relax and enjoy delicious food prepared for you with the closest person.

32. Go on a hike. If this is not possible now, go for a walk.

33. Throw what you don’t want to do more.

34. Plan a party.

35. Choose in another city – at least one day.

36. Let go of what happened yesterday.

37. Let go of what can happen tomorrow. Focus on your “now”.

39. Write a letter to the one you love.

40. Write a letter to yourself in the future, tell us about everything good what is happening to you now.

41. Forgive your parents.

42. Listen to what and how you say to yourself. You allow yourself such words and tone with others?

43. Use failure to grow, and not to sink in it.

44. Get rid of the output clothing inappropriate. Stop waiting for you to lose weight, live now.

45. Understand that happiness is a product of internal work. Thin, rich, beautiful – all of them can be unhappy. The feeling of happiness does not depend on external factors.

46. Buy your favorite flowers.

47. Watch your favorite series.

48. Try something new-go to a culinary master class, take a drawing lesson. Leaving the comfort zone, you will feel that you have become bolder and more confident in yourself.

49. Buy yourself a beautiful outfit.

50. Let yourself experience emotions, do not hide them.

51. Sympathize. The biggest thing you can do for another is to say: “I’m with you”. Do not condemn, do not read notations. Everyone wants to be heard and understood.

52. Believe me: you are more beautiful than you think.

53. Stop counting calories, just eat consciously.

54. Take your vacation. And let there be neither e -mail nor social networks.

55. Stop comparing yourself with others.

56. Dance – alone or with a partner, for any music you like.

57. Accept the fact that you will have good days, and bad, and rich, and

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58. Believe that you are unique, you have something that is not in others. Your task is to find this and present it to the world.

59. Remember: we need relationships in order to grow and develop. People come and leave our lives, not all friendship and love relationships last for a long time. Usually, when the development ends, the relationship ends. The main thing is to learn the necessary lesson.

about the author

Corinn Dobbas – Psychologist, coach. Her site .

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